What happens when a wife doesn’t feel loved and the husband doesn’t feel respected?
Author: Leslie T In a home where the wife doesn’t feel loved and the husband doesn’t feel respected, a painful cycle usually forms and feeds on itself. Many marriage counselors call this the “crazy cycle”: She doesn’t feel loved: -> She may become colder, critical, defensive, or controlling.-> She might say sharp things, withdraw affection, […]
A Healing Conversation between a couple after a fight
Here’s a comprehensive, realistic healing conversation between two partners (you can imagine any couple; I’ll use “A” and “B”). Author: Leslie T The conflict: A felt ignored and disrespected; B felt attacked and misunderstood. They’ve calmed down and agreed to talk. A: Can we talk about what happened earlier? I don’t want to leave it […]
Marriage is Bigger Than The Two People In It
Marriage is Bigger Than The Two People In It Because marriage is a perfect vow made before a perfect God by two imperfect people, only God can make it work. Don’t expect perfection from your spouse.Marriage is perfect, but people are imperfect. If you don’t believe that, just take a look in the mirror. The […]